as an ashore is there anyway to get the amount of the asset which you sent to the other wallets? like the the addition operation .
The horizon endpoint can show you all operations for an account. e.g. https://horizon-testnet.stellar.org/accounts/GDZC37RX2NTKXOG4TPSCZVI5PUSSNP2HJJJOIU7RWNAN5ZL2UHAF2HK3/operations?limit=200
In the Java SDK, this endpoint is represented by OperationsRequestBuilder.forAccount.
You can filter the results for create account & payment operations to see how much has directly been sent for the assets you care about.